- When you need motivation. Motivate someone else. Food thrown over water returns back to you.
- Walk the talk. People love those whose action synchronize with their words.
- Be Trustworthy, Be Interesting and Be Mysterious. Even those who know they are boring get amused by those who're interesting. Those who say they don't care what people think upon getting criticism, get happy when the same people appreciate them.
- When someone says You don't know bla bla bla.... Admit it.
- It saves a lot of time as the premise is not of an open discussion. Someday, they will find out and say something like
- OMG! Why you admitted that you don't know anything about Dowry the other day. You've got way too much insight on it. - [My Reply] -A friendly smile...
- People fascinate for things that are beyond their reach. Employer wants candidates that are not needy. A girl or boy gets attracted to the one who is already in demand.
- Nothing is good or bad. Everything is relative. It's hard to digest that Osama Bin Laden was right from his perspective. And, he is wrong from our perspective.
- When someone try to point out You're dumb. Admit it. People have a hard time hiding their embarrassment when they see you playing at your strength.
- When someone acts smart, don't tell them that you're noticing all that.
- Empty vessels make the most noise.
- Don't try to impress, nobody is interested in you. Be Yourself and chase your dreams. This makes others more interested in you.
- When someone talks, listen with full attention. Active Listening is a deadly skill...luckily nobody talks about it. This makes other person to share some of the best lessons for free.
- Sarcasm can save you from ugly arguments. I received this comment: What do you know about <insert anything> ? Learn it first and then talk !
- My Reply- Yes Sir.. sure sir:)
- We don't share anything that is heartbreaking at the same rate as we would share a hilarious joke that split you into laughter. Read the article- Why Non Sense Movies are made? on this blog.
- When you don't get into arguments, it upsets people even more.When I don't react to criticism and rather than getting hurt I take suitable action with an open mind. It is not an intention to make people feel bad. 9 out of 10 times people admire, apologize and feel guilty like this:
- Sorry and Thank you
- Sudden change in behavior towards me for good
- I'm extremely sorry, if I was hurtful
These facts are not from published authors. I am studying human behaviour and psychology as part of my personal project. I conduct experiments and activities to find patterns.
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